How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Would you date/marry a guy younger than you? If no, why not?

That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do narcissists love their children?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Is there a specific time frame for therapists to tell their clients they are wrong?

Does not procrastinate.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What discoveries in AI research have changed our understanding of intelligence evolution?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

If Russia needs the resources to fund the war in Ukraine, why doesn’t it throw open its doors to visa free western tourism? Enough people would be interested, & it would start to get some hard currency as €, CHF, £, SEK, $, JPY in the tills at shops.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the reason for The Acolyte (2024 series) having poor reception among Star Wars fans?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has anyone ever made you take off your shirt?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What do you think of the 2 female 18 and 19 year-old German tourists, detained in Honolulu, strip-searched, put in green jumpsuits, placed in a holding cell and the next day deported, for the terrible crime of not pre-booking a hotel for their trip?

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.